Memories: The family with 16 kids

I came to know and love the Rosenow family in 2007, when I wrote about them for the Cincinnati Enquirer. They’re an incredible group of people, and they’re still growing. Since I wrote this story, they’ve adopted two more children with special needs and are in the process of adopting another little girl. Read more about their ministry here. A warning: You will be touched by their story.

Here’s the 2007 story I wrote:

Meet the Rosenows − all 18 of them
‘We don’t know how we were able to do this’

By Lori Kurtzman
The Cincinnati Enquirer

FAIRFIELD TWP. − Years ago, before life required three refrigerators, triple−bunk beds and four dozen eggs for breakfast, they were just Kathy and Scott.

He was her older brother’s best friend, the quiet, funny guy who seemed to know everything. She was the beautiful younger sister with the dark hair and the great laugh. They clicked. They married a week after her 18th birthday and left Alabama for Maryland, where Scott served in the Navy and Kathy studied to be a dental assistant.

Within four years, the kids started to arrive, Kristen first, then Erin two years later, then Allan. Ryan rounded out the brood four years later.

He would have been the last.

But then Kathy got this wild idea, and Scott eventually gave in.

Both of them sat on their couch nine years ago and watched that first adopted baby roll on the floor, marveling at what lay hidden inside a discarded child, slowly discovering that something lay hidden within them, too.

It all started there.

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Been a Lang time

That headline doesn’t work, does it? Because you have to know that I’m talking about Chinese pianist Lang Lang (the man so nice they named him twice) and that it’s pronounced LAHNG-LAHNG, and that, oh, never mind.

Let’s start over.

I went to see the Cincinnati Symphony Orchestra last weekend. Through the miracle of social media, the CSO hooked me up with a pair of free tickets.

And not only did we get to see the orchestra’s performance, we also got to meet beforehand with assistant conductor Will White, from whom I learned that a)the orchestra only rehearses a piece like four times b)the no-clapping-between-movements rule is newish and kind of stupid and c)Music Hall is probably not haunted.

And then it was time for the show.

Hey, free seats are free seats.

I’ve seen the CSO perform maybe two or three times in the gigantic cavern known as Music Hall. (They’re trying to shrink it, and even if it costs $100 million to do so, I think it’s worth it.) I love classical music, in part because it gives my mind a chance to wander. They played Wagner’s “The Flying Dutchman” and I wondered, “One hundred years from now, will bands be playing Lady Gaga to crowds of well-dressed elderly folks?” and “Why didn’t I stick with the clarinet?” and “Who thought it was a good idea to bring kids to this thing?” and “Where is everyone I’ve ever met?”

And then Lang Lang walked on stage. Not the panda but the virtuoso piano player who bangs at the keys the way we clap our hands — with assurance that we know with certainty where each hand will land. Lang Lang took on Liszt’s brutal Piano Concerto No. 1 like it was “Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star.” I wondered if maybe he should have pretended to struggle a bit, because I can’t appreciate things that seem easy. Like, imagine if a weightlifter didn’t look like his neck was about to explode when he hoisted 500 pounds over his head — would we still grit our teeth and say, “Wow”?

All of this is to say: He was brilliant.

But Lang Lang taught me that you should never leave a performance too early. We scooted out to the bathroom as he was bowing to his standing ovation, and while outside we once again heard the tinkle of piano keys. We were sad, so we got another drink and guzzled it in time to get back in our seats for the orchestra’s performance of Brahms’ Symphony No. 4, which was way better than “Poker Face.”

We decided to get a post-symphony cocktail at the Cincinnatian, where we learned that Billy Joel once was kicked off the piano because the hotel has strict rules about bar music hours. And as we threw back bar snacks and thought about poor Billy Joel, we saw none other than Lang Lang walk in the front door. He went straight to his room. And that is the end of this story.

Except for this. I went to the CSO web site — and you should do the same, because they’ve got some great guests lined up — and I can’t figure out this picture of Renee Fleming. Please help me.